Men want women to be selective, they just want to be included in the selection.
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If they're included, they say she has good taste.
If not, she is a snob or has bad taste.
I don't see that, men want a bond and a common view. Selection as in money, is close to slavery.
"I'm really glad she spends her time interacting with men I don't like, so that she has less time available for interacting with me and men like me."
-- No man, ever