Tor capacity is a little surprising but not that anyone who needs reliability is in a data centre.

I run a couple of lightning nodes one I would class as a reasonable size routing node and its tough and very much a hobby that costs me money and is a PITA when it goes down.

However Its relativly easy to run a lightning node with a few channels for personal payments which is all most people need. Hopefully one day this could be done on a phone to make it easier.