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i think it's more an issue of selection ...

girls that work out as well as girls that sleep around are both probably more masculine than average because those things are not in feminine nature.

in other words girls you see in the gym and the club are probably not representative of population at large.

i think overall women have been biologically feminized just as men have.

their BEHAVIOR has been masculinized, but they get the same estrogens in their diet as we do.

it is possible of course that cosmetics for women are different than for men but a lot of cosmetics are also unisex.

Prince Aleph 5mo ago

Based on my own anecdata comparing women who do and women who don't, it checks out.

I've always been more attracted to those types of women though, sadly. You can't really choose attraction.

I only really know one chick about 22 who is actually quite feminine in nature despite being relatively fit but she is much more "mid" than the hotter fit girls. She is probably marriage material though - I've thought about circling back to her after I saw her at an event recently (this chick started stalking me on social media back in 2023 after I'd known her for a while; originally fell out of touch with her because of the bad events of the past 2 years).

This is a girl who actually likes cooking as well as you could do active things with. Not so common these days.

Nothing's really a given but like you said if you want a family you have to compromise and there's nothing in life that would be risk-free.

All right, I'll end the stream of consciousness now...

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Dissident Sound 5mo ago

this whole idea that women age like milk and men age like wine is honestly right wing cope

yes aging is more brutal for women but it isn't pretty for men either

it's true that women run out of eggs and men don't run out of sperm but that's just one aspect of aging - the others still apply

my point is that unless you're a billionaire like Musk who uses artificial insemination and even surrogate mothers to make babies you also can't put starting a family off indefinitely

for men it may not be a wall at 30 but i assure you men age too LOL

if you can marry a girl with money or if you can make her sign a pre-nup then it may be a price that needs to be paid to avoid becoming isolated ( having no kids )

of course this assumes she wants to have kids. i don't see any point in marrying a woman unless she wants to have kids RIGHT AWAY.