asking in sincerity
like if anyone wants to make an argument im all ears & i'll walk it back
obvi still an unsound strategy
just open to hearing about if this is some sort of more universal masculine instinctual impulse thing like if "idk just ram it" is coming from a deep core place cos if so, hey, that's ok to feel that way nostr:note16p6acmudewqe0tmgrcde8crcn0pqx3nwl3dmmkypzwdgr08907ps57rfre