Yes, at some point, you have to risk everything or gain nothing. You can't always hold part of yourself back.

That's why it's easier to fall in love when you have nothing to hold back.

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And to stay that deeply in love, you have to remain willing to risk everything.

You have to be willing to just end up a pair of poor church mice, holding hands, watching the rain.

If you'd rather keep the house than the mouse, then you've fallen out of love.

Again agree, but are some of the women these days any different to those that just wanted a house, children and food to be providedโ€ฆnow for some(not me) itโ€™s about handbags, shoes, luxury labels and homes. Different generations = different needs, however as long as thereโ€™s a happy medium whoโ€™s to say whatโ€™s right or whatโ€™s wrong. Happy wife = happy life for husbands ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚

Oh, I didn't say that it's wrong. Not everyone is built for passion.

I'm just responding to the men wondering why wealthy men rarely get to experience such passion.

Love or money is the classic dilemma. Most people get to have a bit of both, or lots of one or the other. Rare to have lots of both, especially if you start off with the money.

Easier to start off with love and add money, I think. Then you don't have to choose.

I see where youโ€™re coming from.

In my experience with these types of men it could be that they have spent a significant portion of their lives building their wealth and therefore not knowing exactly how to relate or respond to having someone beside them. Others could be way too focused on themselves and value their wealth higher than anyone or anything. I actually feel for both, but then again perhaps thatโ€™s their life path and theyโ€™re completely happy with what wealth they have. Happiness is different for everyone ๐Ÿ’œ

Yeah, they probably wouldn't be happy with "true love" and penniless. They don't actually want it THAT bad. ๐Ÿ˜‚

I mean, that's simply the test:

Would you give up X to get Y?

No?

Then you love X more than Y.

Exactly ๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ’œ

Define true love...

True love is when you give as many X to get Y. So... They don't know what true love is and they underestimate it. They will never learn also. What about you? Do you know?

Oh, I definitely know. I am very blessed. ๐Ÿฅฐ

๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก

Well, I've never been "in" love. There are folk I love like my daughter and my mum. I'm more than delighted with them and certain other family members. They were the only ones who backed me up through particularly difficult moments moments in life. Too many peeps don't appreciate family enough (if at all) anymore.

Family is precious. ๐Ÿฅฐ

you should make yourself some babies

Do you mean me?

๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜… Is he referring to both of us?! This got weird REAL QUICK!

๐Ÿ˜‚ We both have kids.

Sorry nostr:npub1twanjtp3mr0ha65uzhug5xvr9vuh6h2gp52pau2rlxy5ta29qqwst5xjqh. One hyperactive six year old is enough ๐Ÿ˜….

more smart people need to have more babies that's all I'm saying

I have 4 and a 5th coming soon.

Lol. For a brief sec I thought, "Is he advising Laeserin to have kids together?!" ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜…

I wish I had 10

Did you homeschool any of them?

Or grandchildren?

My bride and I, by the kindness of Jesus our King (and a substantial dose of persistence and bedrock committment๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿคฃ) hope to celebrate 52 years of marriage in but a few months.๐Ÿ’œโ™ฅ๐Ÿซ‚๐ŸŽ‡

Hiya Duncan my beautiful friend!

How wonderful!

Iโ€™m incredibly happy to hear this, marriage goals right there!

Hereโ€™s to many, many more to celebrate ๐Ÿพ ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅ‚

Hello, Sweetie!

Thanks so much for your loving good wishes!๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ’œ

I hope you're doing well?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿซ‚โ™ฅ

For your amusement, here's a bit more of the story of my "romantic journey" that's culminated in a lasting marriage:

https://peakd.com/poetry/@creatr/bittersweet-glimpses-revisited

Absolutely beautiful my amazing friend, thank you for sharing ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚

Praise God, congratulations.

Thank you, Brother.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ˜†

Congratulations! ๐Ÿฅณ

We just passed 20 years, so we want to be you when we grow up. ๐Ÿ˜‚

And felicitations to you and your groom on such a wonderful milestone! May our gracious Lord Jesus yet grant you two blessed multiples of that score!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚โ™ฅ๐Ÿ˜†๐ŸŽ‡๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘

Cheers, to that!