The main purpose of men is to create their worlds — safe, prosperous, effective — and invite women into them to cooperate and create life — this is how we got here. Wasting time on "romantic" meaningless rituals is stupid. Instead, work on yourself, on your competence, and build your world — everyone will benefit. She doesn't want meaningless proposals and performances — it's a psyop — she want to follow a masculine competent man who created his world. Don't waste your time on delusional dumb ideas. Focus on what's important!