If none of those apps work out to your liking, maybe you can convince the Damus team to add the feature you want. It’s useful to see the zap messages on the notes as you scroll. As for follower counts, there’s no consistency with that because it depends which relays your app is pulling people’s contact lists from. Each app handles it its own way. Nostur just shows infinite followed if I remember correctly, which is probably my favorite 🤣