I tried Discord and didn't like the mixing of voice and text chat. Or maybe it was just that the user culture was to always use voice chat, which I'm not interested in unless it's the **only** thing I'm doing. It's too distracting for me to multitask.

At any rate, Discord, Slack, GChat, and all those others are in the past for me now. I use Matrix and Jitsi and I'm much happier with then. I find them not only functionally superior, but they also have e2ee, are open source, and the servers are not run by profittering gluttons.