You want to know why.

TVL in LN is abyssimal. Of that low number 90%+ is controlled by bank like operators that have deals with chainanalytic companies (Binance, Kraken,...).

That's the network side.

Then you have the user side.

90% of users use custodial services with 0 privacy.

If you use LN in a self-custodial way you are such an exception that you stick out between all the others which ironically increases your fingerprintability.

As LN growth the centralisation that liquidity demands will only ever increase.

There is strength in numbers.