I think the apparent contradictions in the Bible can be resolved with wisdom and understanding.

I don’t think that one human lifetime is going to be enough to completely understand the Bible or resolve every single point of confusion without error, but I do think it’s enough time to begin a relationship with God.

Knowing there will always be something that eludes us is no reason to not try to understand what God sets before us to learn. Just like our imperfect senses allow us to interact with objective physical reality well enough, we’re responsible for interacting with objective spiritual reality as well as we can with our limited abilities.

If God gives us this kind of grace to be in relationship with us despite our imperfections, the same is expected of us. Most Christians understand this, which is why a Presbyterian and a Baptist will refer to the other as “my Christian friend.” There’s actually a lot of room in the church for diversity of belief and practice as long as the most important criteria are met. Romans 14 is a very relevant verse here.