I lurk because so often there is such negative commentary directed towards “normies” and literally the words “if you don’t get it I’m not helping you”. So as someone transitioning from normie, I feel intimidated by some of the conversations and condescending tone. Having said that, when I have asked for help, it has been given freely. For me, it just a lot of courage to say anything for the fear of judgement. And that’s all on me, for sure, I’m just sayin’