Check out Bisq. Itβs a market for exactly this kind of thing.
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cannot be fucked with all that bullshit
Mmmkay
thats too bad, its literally designed to do what you are asking.
I have been using it for many years, very happy.
I get that but all the hodlhodl robosats bisq vexls are built for one reason, TRUST.
Fuck that, I am the trust, I am the one who removes the trust, I pay you first, you rug me? that's life.
I believe people are generally good and Bitcoiners even more so