Decentralization, and the freedom that comes with it, is the main reason why I love Nostr.
At the same time, decentralization is also its main weakness. With Nostr, there is no central server or company to take care of everything for you. You're in charge of your experience when using Nostr clients.
After some experiments, I've arrived at a relay configuration that I feel it gives me the best user experience:
https://habla.news/u/alejandro@bitcoinforfamilies.com/my-nostr-relay-configuration