that's because you are looking at primal
it's an entirely different experience on other clients
i wouldn't be using nostr, and thus zero social media at all if it weren't for clients like jumble, nostrudel and coracle. i couldn't give a flying fuck about the topless tropical primal carnivore bois or fiatjaf or walker or carla, nor even particularly vitor or will.
normies don't get it. that's because nostr is like borderless BBSs from the pre-facebook days, crossed with IRC and Hotline.