This is true if you do not grow as an adult. You must shed your past and not be bound by debts laden by associations of your youth.

A man owes nothing to his parents while he is on his journey to manhood. Everything given by a parent to a child is a gift, and any parent that expects something in return resents their child. Such resentment provides allthemore reason for this new man to never again give them regard other than their due and formal honor.