Ah i see. Maybe you can acquire some skill by the time on this, i don't know, but usually you overcome such things with training and experience i think. Not sure though...
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I just try to fight the panic down and not cry, with limited success. 🙈
Although, I guess men have something similar. The "she won't let me have sex with her" terror, that somehow hovers over even their most platonic relationships.
Fear of alienation of affection versus fear of neglect or abandonment.
Obviously, we're not actually afraid of the loss of sex or food; that's just the underlying instinctive fear. Hindbrain stuff.
That's a real fear 😃.
The fact that a woman demands to consume your time for self-confirmation of an imaginable status she would like to have (and which she doesn't possess, whoever has that status don't do that), while rejecting having sex with you knowing that you might want that, is a terrorist and criminal activity 😃 that tries to push you to the edges intentionally to see how far you would go for her. Women who do that are ending up with lesser men, confirming their real status of a lesser woman that doesn't worth your time and puts her in the position of a mistreatment candidate. Every woman with dignity should avoid that behaviour. I mean it, it's a must not...
In fact some women try to create a public image for you , that you want to have sex with her even if you don't want, and it is she that rejects you. How pathetic...
Avoid that...
I meant more... in-general. Irrational fears, not disappointed expectations.