Bro. R u having a full blown meltdown from being dumped ?
Most probably you fucked up as you said she left you. Own it and move on.
Go on winter glamping with your kid in Michigan. It’ll be your meditation and you’ll come back a better person.
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Meltdown?
I knew this was coming. All the signs where there.
Yeah I fucked up... I stayed loyal and civil when I never should have.
I don't have extra money to just go do shit only making 20k/yr and now having to pay for housing myself.
I’m sorry it sucks for you bro. But you may need to step up the game. Play the fiat game like it’s intended and try to double your salary. Or else you’ll have no one to blame but you.
Staying loyal isn’t fucking up. Making loyalty the only thing you bring to relationship is. I’m no saying you did that but maybe you did. Only you’d know.
If she stayed for 10 years and left, either she’s very timid to let go off of a relationship that’s not working or maybe she’s extremely patient and finally gave up.