I don't actually mind being the odd one out. In some way, everyone is. I just find it amusing that communities land on strange identities. For instance, if I wanted to call myself "conservative" in America that carries a bunch of viewpoint baggage that isn't particularly conservative. Same with liberal.
My goal isn't necessarily to find like-minded people, it is to keep #nostr from becoming more than a technical label. It shouldn't equate to #bitcoin or #libertarian etc.