It was surprising simple - I was trying to make a go of Alby then a few different lightning wallets. I’m just not there…yet! Went back to a Primal wallet setup and it just works. Thanks nostr:npub1qzfu5y0l5lj4lp7aj9uqtzs4kpg24tdjweq0hftvwegc9a7srcpssplfxe