Android:

Samourai Wallet connected to your dojo server installed in your Umbrel OS for best in class privacy transactions and coin control. FOSS and the team is unapologetic hard core libertarians

Bluewallet connected to electrum server for on chain transactions, some decent features and FOSS.

Phoenix for LN does the job very well, FOSS as well and IMO beat in class for lightning network, just open a big channel the first time, so you don't have to pay high fees for channel capacity every time you do a bit higher transactions, most people don't do their research and wrongly state the fees are high, not true, they just don't know what they are doing and therefore use Phoenix as if it was any other non custodial wallet like WOT