ikr... my boss has started some preaparations for exactly such an upgrade but we are waiting on someone to pay for the work to be done

in the meantime, i had endless problems with my fork of khatru so i'm redoing the relay based on a different codebase than fiatjaf's... he just does some crazy spaghetti with goroutines and idk wtf was going wrong but no other client than nostrudel was actually reliably working with my relay, so, maybe also nostrudel is more tolerant of errors in some parts of the relay implementation