Few things. If you just starting, go with Umbrell! Good for learning without making too many fatal mistakes.

Don’t run relay and LN node on the same server.

If you don’t have experience hosting your own servers, use VPS, will be safer for you and your node.

For relay, not sure why you would want one, you’ll need to budget for hardware and bandwidth. Depends on number of active users a lot.

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