Imho, I think living AWAY from both parents of Wife & Husband = BEST. Much LESS interference that way!
They can visit but NOT live close to drop by UNannounced.
Personally, there is NO WAY IN FKING HELL I would ever live in same city or within 6 hours of in laws!
Almost Sis-In-Law AGREED, 100%!
Ivy League grad for both uni and Law School, a child of PRIVILEGE and somewhat spoiled but not clueless.