Someone could censor you but then you would just use a different client or a different relay or run your own client and relay. It would become a temporary game of whack-a-mole.
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Is there some sort of cheat sheet showing us how to do all this?
Several guides exist. If you just want a backup you can use Umbrel or Citrine. If you want a publicly accessible relay that you run on a server computer you can use this old guide and install Nostream. This is the relay I've been using since December 2022.
https://github.com/cameri/nostream
Check out th full guide and instructions section.
I appreciate you being helpful, but you have to realize us non-techies don’t think that way.
I’m never going to search through Google results to learn how to use this technology.
If this is going to go mainstream, someone is going to create idiot proof instructions and processes.