I tried the Reserves for about 5 years after active duty. I was getting really sick of all the bullshit. Then one day I tore into a soldier on the siding range during qualification because I caught her cheating, loading extra rounds into her magazine. Apparently her platoon sergeant had instructed her to do so. I was strongly admonished for making her cry. I was fucking done after that. I stopped showing up and told them to just process me out. When you're not mobilized on active duty, that's not a discharge so it didn't affect my VA benefits. I already have two honorable discharges from active duty.