For me
Buy btc = cashapp
Bluewallet = hot wallet
Coldcard or blockstream jade for hardware wallet and both can use the Bluewallet interface and I like Bluewallet because you can have multiple wallets in one interface..
Discussion
Phoenix for non custodial lightning network wallet
Why not Breez?
I dont like the warning they give you when you first open a wallet lol "this is in beta use could possibly lose funds or something a long those lines.. basically saying if breeze don't work out yo shit is gone.. but I have not used in a long time so that message might not be shown anymore..
BlueWallet has watch-only wallets to see your cold storage addresses. It also lets you set a plausible deniability passphrase which is very cool. I wish they’d improve the interface though, because it’s getting pretty dated.
The best Lightning-only wallet if you run a node or manage multiple LNDHub accounts is #[4]​ and they are constantly releasing improvements and new goodies.