Women who like mistreatment are "bad women", yes. In the sense that they're a worse choice for a mate than a woman who wouldn't accept mistreatment, all other things being equal.

More subjective is what constitutes mistreatment. I think there's not as much consensus on that, as there once was, but my religion defines it quite simply:

The more Christlike he loves you, the better he is. The less, the worse he is.