Well, you don't have to whore yourself, you can just wait. Beta testing is good to help iron out some bugs, but I personally would never do anything like that. I would just wait or not pay attention and move on.

But I think you're probably not the target demographic for ZBD Social. Which should be a good sign, sign that Nostr can reach other kinds of people that aren't the technical/very-interested/early-adopter/freedom-focused type.