You're way too caught up by this dualistic thinking our overlords feed us with to keep us divided. There are many women out there who are stuck in horrible situations that struggle doing 2-3 jobs to feed their kids and yet no one is interested in showing them to to you. Your attention is always directed towards liberal women/feminist activists you wouldn't root for because they're often from middle class families, making them seen like lazy bored leeches. But don't think they had it easy.

Boys and young men have issues with their identity, so do girls and young women. For every incel there's a girl doing sexual stuff because it's expected of them because they all grew up on porn. For every angry feminist you see there's a guy doing pickup artist magick.

If white trash and black ghettos came together, the state would be fucked. If men and women weren't in permanent conflict, they'd build strong families and be less difficult to control.

Seperation is their game. Don't play along.