It's pretty simple and my dude nostr:npub1utx00neqgqln72j22kej3ux7803c2k986henvvha4thuwfkper4s7r50e8 hit the nail on the head. But I'll also add that many people say one thing, but when it boils down to it, they do or feel the other way. You can't have it both ways, I less you want to be a hypocrite.

i.e. I want free speech, but only if it's the speech I agree with.

And I do sometimes get it. It's hard to go against your upbringing or your religion, your identity. However, if you're truly a libertarian and just want to be left alone to do your own thing, then others should be left alone to do their own thing too. Non stop bitching about it isn't the way to go either. Be better. Be unhappy, state your opinion, the move on.