To name a few... Isn't willing to compromise should compromise be necessary, unkind to ppl in lesser position than him (disrespectful), rude to customer service people, unreliable, not able to commit to anything, manipulative, unaccountable, superficial, poor communication, hasn't dealt with past traumas, short temper, lazy, lacks emotional intelligence, doesn't have boundaries, financially illiterate, non adventurous, lacks ambition, asks things of me they are unwilling to give themselves... my list is more on character versus looks because that's fleeting. We will all be old at some point and looks fade. I need to be able to have more beyond physicality with someone.