My view is that all relationships are work. You have to put in work for the relationships to flourish. Whether it’s with a partner or a child. Both are different yes but there are definitely things that a parent can do or a child that would break the relationship/love. All of them are real though. Work and certain things that can break it doesn’t mean they’re not real love (for the partner or the child)
My view is that relationships are a medium in which value is transacted. Your wife can try to “love” you as much as she wants but if you stop delivering on your responsibilities then she’s going to leave that relationship. If you cheat on her, turn into a bum, or abuse her then she will stop loving you. You won’t stop loving your children no matter what they do. That’s real love.
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