Do you have the option to register a company overseas in a bitcoin friendly jurisdiction without money transmitter licensing requirements, then run nodeless out of there?
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If you're saying you don't want to kyc/doxx yourself... Wyoming in the USA gives you the option of registering an LLC without entering your name into public record. You just have to hire a registered agent to do your registration. Though then you run into unfriendly US regulators. I'm sure there are other overseas jurisdictions you could do similar. Perhaps Estonia?