Our own respective ages / genders might also play a part in this discussion. I’m assuming you’re female under 30? Though who knows
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That's ridiculous.
My original post has two parts. The second part expanding on why that received wisdom probably rings true. You then went on a bit of a rant judging judgemental people. It’s called a conversation but it seems you’re a little precious (which is why I thought you were younger - maybe I’m mistaken). Let’s leave it