We all definitely get used to a specific UX. Personally, samourai has been so solid for me and made easier as I'm not a big LN user. Phoenix when paired to my own node have all my needs covered.
I'm constantly mixing whirlpool through the Cli so I guess that's my bias for red and privacy. Also being a long term Monero user hearing that atomic swaps are nearly ready for Samourai, it really is all I need for a hot wallet.
Cold wallet, then it's Sparrow PSBTs all the way. The ease of labelling and backing them up makes passing on critical UTXO information simple and robust. Agreed it's for power users but I'm bullish on price action (forever) so it becomes easy to onboard others in my family network.