Only up to three?👀
Check your relay settings nostr:nprofile1qqs0cu4wf0x3g99dg0qz795j5taln5caux0929tkazem59pd9wqkm0sprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujucm4wfex2mn59en8j6f0qy88wumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmv9uq3xamnwvaz7tm0venxx6rpd9hzuur4vghs7jwvrz. You should keep just 1-3 relays in the Public Home and Inbox lists (the first 2 on amethyst).
Discussion
ideally yes. so that other people don't need to ping all 20 relays to get all of your posts. Just choose the ones you trust the most.