fair, but the system is broken. If relays could discover each other when people from different relays interact with each other, then you wouldn't have to worry about discoverability. Only costs you would pay for are if you are hosting your infrastructure.
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I know what I am talking about, the point is simple.
1. The relays should be smart enough to discover each other for more federation
2. Don't like to see a lot of posts? don't read them? I don't understand paying for a system to not read posts that you wouldn't read anyway