In BDSM, it's widely accepted, that a D/S (Dominance-Submission) relationship has to be voluntarily and without coercion.
All the 'tolerant' people out there will agree.
But when someone decides to live that D/S relationship voluntarily and without coercion AND WITHOUT A SEXUAL KINK ATTACHED -- it's 'muh bad', mysoginist, out of time 😂😂😂