Cool. Sounds like an interesting story, that’s all.
Discussion
Sex like anything else
Varies
Yeah. I’m sure that’s true. It’s glorified in video but my experience is that I had to feel in love with the woman and that even then it took practice to get really good. Doing it in a room full of uncommitted people would probably be fairly empty and a mixed bag, at best.
Nor could I. Heh. I wonder if I could really get it up in that circumstance or, conversely, last more than 5 minutes, especially if drugs and alcohol were involved. Just being honest, because I’m curious. It sounds intense.
Many choose to partake in drugs but I never would feel a need. Truth is I wouldn’t if someone needed to. Why? Cause it feels wrong morally. Hahaha 😂 some would suggest me speaking about morals while speaking about this subject is wrong or hypocritical.
To them I say: have I judged you harshly? Do I not respect your difference opinions? We don’t all have to agree to discuss things.
I am certainly not judging. In the words of Don Draper, “People do things.” 😘
How did all those relationships fare over time? Did they survive the encounter for long? A group entails a lot of complex interpersonal chemistry, which I would imagine would be at least altered afterward.
Various couples just go to parties etc. some groups are poly
It’s all so varied it’s hard to speak of to each relationship as they are varied. My old neighbors had a party monthly. TRULY never went as my partner was definitely NOT into it. But the wife & I spoke. Never did anything with her either out of respect for my partner.
Science is wild 😜 It’s all dependent on individuals, experience, sexual preferences etc …
Who knows? I’ve been with two men the last 7 years. One guy & havent seen him in years but I adore him. Like a romantic Ashoka does. 🤣 The other guy I’ve been with & all was well until I missed first guy.
No women. Both of them are amazing.
Ah. So, as a guy, I have to ask, because I would wonder: Were their sizes different and how was that handled? The smaller guy would need to be extra secure, I’d imagine, while you might have preferences yourself.
Yes 🙌 various sizes. It’s not as if they go in size order or something. It just happens.
Truly, this is more out of my personal wheelhouse of experience but some women say it’s just a matter of lubricant for bigger guys.
As a woman who has technically went through partial menopause I keep waiting for
My body to dry up but so far so good. Our bodies are strange.
Oh yeah, I squirt so that can be a total no-go for some.
My preference is one on one with someone I love. Really.
But, as I’ve done all that in the past I can speak on it.
Yes to squirting. That’s 🔥. How did the two guys finish, assuming they did?
Partner I swallowed. Other in condom inside.
Mean people suck. Nice people swallow. 🌹
So, was there a time that one guy was on his back while you rode him and either sucked the other guy or the other did anal? If I were on my back, it might be weird to view the other guy’s nutsack or, if anal, have his balls slap mine. I’d much rather stand.
Men have to decide what they are comfortable with. It is definitely true.
Yes. “Airtight” is the way to be.
I mean, I’m fine with me that way, but if the other guy was “Mr. Eggplant”, and if the female-of-focus showed a preference, well, naturally, I might feel, you know, “lesser.”
First timers I’d expect not to last long. Recalibrated for later 🤣
Heh. Yeah, I’d have to become a regular, because practice makes perfect, for me, at least.
But if you show up and hate it most everyone I’ve known wouldn’t pressure you or anything. But that was years ago. Who knows nowadays?