Can you point me out the decisions that Monero has made to favor privacy over decentralization? I was convinced that RandomX to avoid ASICs taking most of hash power was actually more decentralised then Bitcoin POW. I thought it was a good solution to avoid having most hash power concentrated in the hands of wealthy mining company owners as is happening with Bitcoin.
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Digital constraints on hashpower are fallible. Physical constraints are superior in the long term. Energy is the only truly decentralized/permissionless constraint which can be anchored to.
Have you heard of stratumV2?