We can try to curate better client recommendations on nostr.com
Maybe nostr:npub1c878wu04lfqcl5avfy3p5x83ndpvedaxv0dg7pxthakq3jqdyzcs2n8avm can help?
As specifically for Gossip - I agree that if what you describe is still the current process then we should not recommend this client. But I don’t know if nostr:npub1acg6thl5psv62405rljzkj8spesceyfz2c32udakc2ak0dmvfeyse9p35c is even getting further funding to make it easy to use … a lot of this depends on developers ability to continue working on clients.
I’ll look at nostr.com closer soon to see what can be done - but ultimately depends on nostr:npub1c878wu04lfqcl5avfy3p5x83ndpvedaxv0dg7pxthakq3jqdyzcs2n8avm