This is so true - all the most interesting, thought provocative and unbelievable stories I've been told - were told by old ppl, both inside my family and strangers. I love children, but I also love and respect those who made it till their 60s and further. They have so much to tell, to share with us. I truly believe that cultures that hold their seniors in great respect and under good social care are superior to those where old ppl marginalised, disrespected or alienated. These societies are shooting themselves in a foot. I also regret so much that didn't talk more with my grandparents when they were alive, that I didn't write down everything they were telling me about their childhood, youth , their parents and grandparents. Don't be like me, be unlike me 😀, call or visit your grandparents, parents, uncles and aunts more often. Or just talk sometimes to old ppl on the streets, hospitals etc (when its apropriate of course, not like a crazy person 😄). They are amazing, most of the time hehe .
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I couldn't agree more with you! It's truly a remarkable experience to sit and chat with the older generations. They offer not only wisdom but also a distinct viewpoint shaped by the struggles of a bygone era. The stories they share are so much more than just tales; they're living history, precious time capsules of experiences and knowledge that no textbook could ever capture.
And your point about the treatment of elders in society is so important. Their wisdom and life experiences are truly invaluable. Societies that respect and take care of their elderly tend to be more harmonious, showing a deep understanding of the cycle of life and the wisdom that comes with age.
It's definitely a missed opportunity if we don't seize the chance to learn from them. We often get so caught up in the speed and immediacy of the modern world that we forget the value of sitting down, slowing down, and just listening.
I, too, regret not speaking to my grandparents more about their lives. Looking back, there are so many questions I wish I had asked and so many stories I wish I had heard more about. It's a reminder for all of us to not take these opportunities for granted because they won't last forever.
Thank you for your heartfelt reminder. Let's all make a pledge to reach out and connect more with the elderly people in our lives. The rewards we reap in knowledge, wisdom, and perspective will be more than worth it.