You get told to conform to gender norms when you are being manipulated.

I’m only told I’m not “in my feminine” when someone wants me to put up with their shit or make myself into a baby machine.

Men get told they're not “man enough” when they don’t want to be used as a money machine or go die in someone else’s war.

“Feminine” and “masculine” are tools of control. Be free 🕊️