Turn off the fediverse bridges

yes

What do you mean and which app are you using?

Yes, but you have to be more selective with your relays.

Yes.. log into my npud and take a look

What client do you use. Thats a must to know and i can help

You can probably try using:

wss://nfrelay.app

as your "global feed" relay in your nostr client settings. By default it will filter Non SFW content, toxic comments, etc.

You can also customize its parameters freely or even disable filter settings. 🙂

User guide:

https://github.com/atrifat/nostr-filter-relay/blob/main/USAGE.md