Have you tried not being a little bitch!? But for real, I hear you. There are options but there’s a deep lack of polish. Transaction failure has reduced significantly since first implemented and it will only get better with time. For now, I use Fold or Strike for everything. Heard good things about Breez but idk if that’s self custodial. Aqua is pretty solid but hard to empty a wallet fully unless I’m missing something. Phoenix was great until it took itself off app stores but now it’s back so I’ll have to jump back in some time. It’ll get better. We just gotta be patient!