I cannot stand people who do not understand barriers:

- that is my spaces, do not cross

- I pay, I do not need your assistance, thank you

- We are friends not sexual partners

- This is it safety!

It works exactly the same whether you are a male or a female. By being responsible for my own behavior, I am responsible for yours. Cos it means I am responsible for your safety & you are responsible for mine. Does it make sense?