I’m gonna say this in all sincerity you make your choices if you decide not to participate in that world it’s up to you, but if you want to have a nice dinner periodically that’s also up to you. No one should be shaming anybody for their decisions.
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hit a nerve?
there’s a nuance you obviously don’t understand, acting as if i’m stating that “taking an occasional dinner out is bad 😡” is proof you don’t get it. And it’s obvious you’re taking it personally. You need the grift, it’s literally your whole career girl.