I'm no fan of meta, zuck, human trafficking, psyops, etc., but it's much better than telcos that were all captured in the 80s and offer no encryption at all 🤷
Personally I use Signal with normies, and matrix for my closer circle. PGP email in a pinch. Sphinx chat over LN was alright. Nostr obviously.
But we're the visionaries. Its gonna take decades for our tools & ideas to catch on en masse. Fortunately bitcoiners are a patient bunch. The real bitcoiners at least.