Putting it off is dangerous -- I remember a time last August when I had to do this and then ended up on the dance floor and there was a 6' athletic redhead gluing herself to me on the dance floor. This is when you are most vulnerable to the attacks of temptresses and seductresses. You can literally feel the hormones hijack your consciousness.
I later found out this girl had a BF by the way. She also might have been Jewish.
there is no such thing as a boyfriend with hot sluts. there is just some loser who thinks that he is her boyfriend.
at least my 1st GF was honest enough to tell me that i was not her boyfriend even though she had taken me to meet her parents for example.
what she meant is that she is a whore and her holes are public goods and just because i'm a decent enough guy to show to her parents and / or have a nicer car than other guys she's banging and / or we share some interests like photography etc. doesn't make me special.
it is actually fairly common for hoes to be open about this kind of stuff. my 1st GF took it further by making it a condition that she will only date me if i promise that i don't have feelings for her. i lied and said that i didn't ... in doing so i only cheated myself.
this is why Gary PUA teaches "do not ask her if she has a BF - introduce yourself and let her decide if she has a BF or not"
when a girl says "i have a BF" what she is actually saying is "you're not alpha enough for me - i have better options than you"
a girl will never say "i have a BF" to a real alpha.
so when you ask "do you have a BF?" the answer is really "depends on who is asking?"
if you're a beta the answer is "yes i have a BF" if you're an alpha the answer is "oh that guy? he's just a friend"
LOL
whether something is food or isn't food depends on how hungry you are. and whether somebody is or isn't BF depends on how thirsty a hoe is.
Oh yes, my first GF did this as well, and in retrospect there's no surprise: She was a cute athletic brunette and I was foolish about relationships whereas she had probably been pumped and dumped several times before. She was sneaky about it at first but later got more open about it as well. For example, at one point it turned out she had been fucking a drug dealer who already had two baby mamas (this guy was a whigger by the way, not black, but she may have fucked blacks too for all I know). When I confronted her about it she was like "relax, I'm not even attracted to him, I just wanted free drugs." Really an eye opener, that was.
Actually in retrospect, I should have appreciated that situation more than I did. She wanted to go to strip clubs and hit on girls in tandem, or find girls for us to have threesomes with. I never really took near as much advantage of what I had going on at that time because then I actually believed in commitment and so on. And when you're young you think the opportunities are limitless...
yes the problem with young, naive people is they judge too much instead of just appreciating what they have
they judge because their head was stuffed with all this moralizing from X-Dogs ( like the filth on Poa.st ) and parents and they're too young to understand it was all BS the purpose of which was either to manipulate or to virtue signal or most likely both
my 1st GF also wanted me to have a threesome with her BFF - she kept brining her BFF over, one time getting her drunk almost to the point of passing out and her BFF looked just like her - 6 feet tall and thin, and although she didn't have as nice of an ass as my GF she had nicer tits and was overall attractive and smart ( she was studying psychology ). i chickened out.
