if you want to set up a single proxy relay that you talk to that does gossip, this is not even possible if your client forces an outbox model. Don’t listen to the outbox extremists, relay pool will always be the most efficient, flexible, and respecting of user preference. I see outbox as more as a fallback if your client can’t find a note.

relay pool is like stick shift, outbox is automatic. Damus will likely have both options, but the argument that outbox is always better is just 🙄

Can we talk about something else?